Monday, November 12, 2012

November - Month Of Thanks: Days 12-17



In my daily virtual roaming in the world of Facebook, a few people have taken part in what I think is a growing tradition or trend:  during the month of November, the month of Thanksgiving, people are taking a moment each day of the month and state something that they are thankful for. 

Here is the third post. The groups of people below all have chosen a profession that either saves lives, helps lives, shapes lives, or inspires lives, with a significant level of personal sacrifice of time, and the sacrifice of chasing fame and fortune and glitter.
 
Disclaimer:  By no means do I mean to exclude professions from this list, nor do I mean that any professions that I do not list are any less important. In fact, I welcome anyone to add a comment below to list other professions they are thankful for – the longer the list, the better we all are as a community.

11/12 – FIRST RESPONDERS:  Just as I ended my last post thanking Veterans for their lives on the line to protect Democracy, freedom, our rights and opportunities in the abstract, First Responders put their  lives on the line to protect us in a very concrete way, whether fire fighters, EMTs, and ambulance staff, to police officers and other rescue personnel. In the wake of Hurricane Sandy, first responders, in times of need, work tirelessly and with urgency to not only save lives, but attempt to take very real potential tragedies, and try to restore some sense of normalcy, whatever the situation is. First Responders have gotten a lot of thanks and respect since the 9/11 attacks, and deservedly so. 
 
11/13 – NURSES/MEDICAL STAFF:  Right behind First Responders is the various professions in the nursing and medical field. I’m a little “biased” here, in that both of my parents, and many of my relatives, are in the medical field. Even though it’s obvious that these professions are vital in saving and protecting lives, I think there is an aspect to this profession that is somewhat understated:  it takes a strong individual to work in a profession where lives may hang in the balance; to witness the pain and struggle that comes with helping those who are sick and suffering, whether it’s an instant life-or-death situation, or in treating someone with a long-term illness. It takes a strong individual to deal with that stress and emotional pull, and then go about the rest of your day and responsibilities. 

11/14 – TEACHERS:  As with the above two groups, it takes a special person to be a teacher. To be able to guide children to give them the skills they’ll need in life, both from an academic standpoint and from a life-skills standpoint (behavioral, social, environmental), is a skill set that is very specialized and not everyone has the patience and dedication to be successful. To me, I can’t imagine what it would be like to be responsible for 15-30 different little individuals – and I think that’s an understated aspect. There is a balance that needs to be found in managing a class as a whole, while remembering that in fact, each kid is a separate individual with a separate combination of background, personality, learning abilities, skills, strengths, etc. There is a lot of responsibility placed on the shoulders of teachers that in my opinion isn’t recognized enough, and for that, I am thankful. 

And there is one rant that I want to address, specifically:  when the teaching profession is discussed, there seems to be a common feeling that teachers, and I’m paraphrasing, “has it lucky to have an eight-hour job and then have summers off.” I know several teachers, and none of them work only an eight-hour day. They all have their classroom time, but they all bring work home, on nights and weekends, whether it is grading tests, or creating lesson plans, or giving some students specialized help – and all of this on top of the heavy responsibility I’ve outlined above. 

11/15 – VOLUNTEERS:  I’m including volunteers in this group of “professions” for two reasons:  for some people, this actually is their profession, and for other people, they devote so much time to a cause, it could be a “second profession.” There are so many causes and needs out there to be taken care of, and it’s amazing that there are people who are completely selfless in devoting significant time. Of course, there are volunteers in all aspects of life, for all causes, and I would hate to think of how much more suffering there would be if it weren’t for all of the volunteers out there, whether the cause is a long-term one, or an immediate cause in response to a specific situation. 
  
11/16 – ARTISTS:  Here, I’m using artists in the broader sense:  literal artists, writers, photographers, actors, musicians, but those who are truly looking to make an impact in this world, and not necessarily just for the fame and money of the pop world. I know this may sound a little judgmental, but to me, in my opinion, there is a difference between someone who is inspired to contribute to the arts out of genuine feeling, versus someone who looking to “hit it big” – and yes, I do understand that’s a fuzzy line between the two.
But, part of our happiness, in my opinion, comes from seeing something that we can connect with emotionally, whether it is reading a book, hearing a song, seeing a photo, etc. Without artists out there who are willing to take an emotional risk to vulnerably put their heart and soul out there, in the form of expression, for the public to accept or reject, we wouldn’t have these things to connect with. And I think this is the aspect to this profession that gets understated (not that I’m trying to make this a theme of this post); there is a major emotional risk to putting yourself out there for the general public to judge. I think that risk is managed by some artists better than others, but that risk is there, and I am very thankful for those who have taken that risk, and in the end have inspired me in one way or another.

And for this post, I’ll end with…

11/17 – MY CAREER:  I chose 11/17 to write about being thankful for my career, as this is the anniversary of my hire date of my current job, back in 1997 – 15 years ago. I’ve ranted several times about working in the Corporate World, and about how being an Accountant can be less-than-rewarding. But there are two things in my career than I am thankful for.

First, just the fact that I have had one job for 15 years is an accomplishment in itself, and it is one that I could not do without the recognition by, and opportunities from, the people I have worked with and for. My career really isn’t truly mine; my career is a collection of positive, productive interactions with hundreds of people over the years, all in theory united towards the same goal but many times separated by differing sub-goals. In my first November post, I alluded to being thankful for my co-workers; but in this post, I am thankful to the broader list of people that I have been in contact with, whether it was a one-time encounter, or peers, colleagues, project team members, extended partners, etc. 
 
And second, and I alluded to this in my second November post, I have been lucky enough that my career has enabled me to have the freedom outside of my nine-to-five to be able to do and explore the things I have learned to enjoy. I know there are many careers out there where the time demands and career demands don’t allow this, and I also know that I am lucky to have held a job consistently for this long. I do not have lofty aspirations for my career – I am not a “career-person”. But I am thankful for my career and what is has done for me.
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Again, I encourage everyone to at least think about the things you’re thankful for. Times are tough all over the place; there is a lot of stress and pressure and pain and suffering out there in the circles I’m in, and I feel it. Being thankful may not take any of that away, but hopefully create just enough of a positive feeling to make life just a little bit brighter.

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